About 7 years ago there was a chat between Marcel and one of his childhood friends. The friend said that he and his girlfriend had met another woman and that they would now consider entering into a polyamorous relationship with this woman. Marcel advised his friend against it at the time because a relationship does not tolerate a third person. This only creates jealousy and ultimately breaks the relationship. That was his opinion then.
1 year after this chat we found ourselves in the same situation. We had met Michel and we both fell in love with him without turning away from our love for another. How did that happen? Even today, that is not entirely clear to us. The fact is, the relationship between Marcel and Marco was not going well at this time, they tried everything to save their relationship and so one day the topic of threesomes came up. With that, we were sure, we give our relationship the necessary momentum and so we solve all problems. Ohh how wrong we were! Yes in the gay community it wasn’t difficult to find someone for a threesome. Both of us suggested a few potential candidates and we agreed on two dates. The first date was a friend of Marcel. As it happened, the third one was mainly interested in Marcel and Marco felt a little out of place.